When faced with a difficult situation, we have two choices:
We can make excuses or make a go of it.
That is, we can invent reasons why it’s okay to fail, or we can keep going until we’ve found a way to get what we want.
In fact, this is one of the most fundamental tests a person can face: Can you make it go? No matter the effort? No matter the obstacles? No matter the opposition?
Modern “common sense” says you shouldn’t work too hard or become too obsessed with a goal. You should just release yourself from the burdens of desire and pursuit and content yourself with who you are and what you have.
These philosophies are quickly embraced by the more “well-adjusted” members of society, who think fretfully, speak timidly, and move slowly.
To these people, you must be “insane” to make it. Insane to work twice as hard as everyone you know, insane to wake up at the crack of dawn to get in your workouts, and insane to pursue goals they don’t understand and take risks they can’t stomach.
Many of these simps will delight in telling you as much too. In fact, they’ll have so much advice that if you were to scribble it all down on pieces of paper, you’d singlehandedly decimate entire swaths of the world’s forests.
“You shouldn’t do that,” they love to say, wheeling out a litany of reasons why it’s not going to work out, why you’ll regret it in the end, and why you should squander your time, energy, and life like they do instead.
And then you’ll say, “Screw it. I’m doing it anyway."
“Screw it. I’m going to count my calories and lose those twenty pounds.
“Screw it. I’m going to burn the midnight oil to launch that side hustle.”
“Screw it. I’m going to cut down my expenses and save and invest more.”
You’ll probably be afraid too. Anxious. Uncertain. Embarrassed.
All that is normal. Remember the first time you rode a bike? This is no different.
All you have to do is grit your teeth, disown the fear, and get to work. You put in the work, and you get better. You get better, and you gain confidence. You gain confidence, and you want to do more good work. It’s a virtuous cycle.